Butt stuff is an entirely different type of play from oral and vaginal sex for many reasons. Those who love anal sex are often appreciative of its highly intimate nature and the unique sensation of fullness it gives the receiver. Having said that, butt stuff should be something you choose to do — not something you do to please anyone but yourself, and certainly not something anyone can be pushy or coercive about doing with you. Because everyone deserves to have a beautiful bum experience every time, here are seven tips that will help you prepare for and then enjoy yours. First things first: Figure out your safer-sex approach. Keep in mind that if you're not using a condom, anal sex is a higher-risk sex act , especially for the receiver. HIV and hepatitis are easily spread this way because they're transmitted through blood-to-blood or semen-to-blood contact.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, did he think that was on the table? Phew, he is moving away from it. False alarm. Maybe today's the day I'm going to feel adventurous and just try it. Nope, no, it isn't. I miscalculated. Does he think about butt stuff a lot? I'm told men like that sort of thing, so maybe he just feels weird bringing it up, which makes sense considering I'm getting this freaked out and he hasn't even done anything yet. How long ago was my last shower? It wasn't today, and I worked really late yesterday, so maybe Saturday?
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When we did the X-ray, we saw Barbie. Not only was she way up in there, but her arms were straight up and hair was everywhere, it really looked like she was having a grand time! Dude was found lying face down on his couch, completely naked, with a fish tail sticking out from between his cheeks. Firefighters and Paramedics were trying their best to not laugh. He never gave an excuse. The patient tried to sue the ambulance company for not being professional but soon realized it would mean this entire incident would go public and changed his mind. Not a small one. He asked for a copy of the X-ray. Flared ends, people.
Photo: Getty Images. Anal sex may seem taboo, but behind closed doors, plenty of women have tried it: According to a survey published in a issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine , more than 1 in 3 women ages 19 to 44 has tried it at least once. Skip experimenting if you have hemorrhoids or are having digestive issues, and use plenty of lube. The anus will stretch to accommodate a penis or toy that enters much like it will stretch to allow a bowel movement to exit and then will return to normal. Make YOUR well-being a priority this year! It may cause an orgasm. For some women, the act can feel incredibly sensual.