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It's hard to imagine something more shocking than walking in on your girlfriend with someone else. You'll likely be embarrassed, hurt, and angry. It would be easy to overreact. What will you do? What will you say? It's best to give some though to it, so you can be prepared in case the unthinkable every happens.
Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions. Although with the change in times, people may not follow these rules as stringently as before, it is still better to be careful so as to not offend anyone, and you may possibly land up with the love of your life. So there's THAT to look forward to. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. I will have time to build a life with friends and activities and travel of which he will be a minor part. I wish I could let go of our love as easily as he has, but I just can't. What goes on in those sacred temples. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. With all of this said, I wish I would have found your blog earlier. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me.